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Old 08-31-2012, 10:51 PM
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Originally Posted by newbie1 View Post
He says he would be okay with me having a lesbian lover - but he would still expect to be part of that relationship.
He has no jurisdiction over your or another woman's body. To insist that anyone who gets involved with you must also be sexual with him is tantamount to rape. SHE chooses who to be with. YOU choose who to be with. He doesn't get to choose for anyone else. He expects to partake in her sexual favors just because she's with you -- what sick and possessive bullshit. Sorry, but it seems he does not think about you at all, only his dick and where he can stick it.
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