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Old 08-31-2012, 01:08 AM
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Originally Posted by dingedheart View Post

I think what you are likely to find is that it's similar to successful marriages, it's dependent on the players. Also, I think you might find a bell curve effect.
Yep. That's my guess too.

For me-my relationships both enhance one another. But, there again-they have each been significant parts of my life for 20 years. SOOOOOOOOO-I guess its all in how you play it.

Personally, I don't do things to try and "protect" one relationship FROM the other-but I do subscribe to the belief that relationships require care the same way a garden does-so I do my gardening in each relationship and I don't take on more relationships than I have time to garden...
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