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Old 08-30-2012, 05:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Panda View Post
I say that just makes me another sex toy with money. So if she's just wanting me for my money and sex, I don't understand her way of living.
This is an incredibly disrespectful way to view your girlfriend, just because you can't comprehend how her mind and heart work.

Originally Posted by YouAreHere View Post
She and her GF may not have any issues, but that doesn't invalidate the fact that you do (and others might), and it doesn't make what you're feeling "wrong". And her desire to have multiple relationships doesn't necessarily mean she's "using" anyone. If she is Poly, then yes, she may truly love the both of you.

I urge you both to take a lot of time communicating and trying to understand the other's point of view, whether or not you end up as a "couple" - it could be quite valuable to the both of you to have a close friend who understands the other (as much as you possibly can).
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