Well it turns out the things I enjoy doing don't really have a whole lot of interesting people unfortunately.
Even at work or where I train, it's really boring.
I know not focusing on gender is the way to go but I really want to have girl friends.
Not even for poly or sex or anything. I just feel more comfortable that way.
Heck I would even settle for some cool guys but most of them are either too busy in their relationships or they are losers or they are only interested in hanging out with other chicks (just like me).