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Old 08-29-2012, 07:20 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: Bay Area
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Default Converting from lurker

Okay, since Skye has already done a wonderful job, I think I'll steal her intro and edit.

Hi there. I am a male that is part of a quad with my wife, Skye, of 17 years and another married couple. We have been on and off quadded for the past two+ years, but have remained best friends throughout. Skye and I have two children, and our other half has one child. Our youngest child is biologically not mine, she is Busbuddha's, (by choice) but Skye and I are primary in her upbringing. We are out to all our families, although not all are supportive. We are not out, however, to our 11 year old son, which is a quandary. We are hoping to possibly find some support for this here. He does know about our youngest child not being his full sibling, though. The four of us, plus our three kids, are utterly, and completely, chosen family and this will never change.

Our personal arrangements allow for outside, agreed upon, partners. We have a hierarchy within the quad that our married partners are priority. I am lovers with the other female of the quad, but not sexually intimate with Busbuddha.

I am hoping to find some community here, as it is hard to have to be in the closet with most everyone in real life. My close friends are aware of our lifestyle, but most people are not. Skye and I have had a somewhat open relationship for 8+ years, but we find being committed to another couple works best for us.

Thanks for reading!

Last edited by Avatar; 08-29-2012 at 07:25 PM.
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