View Single Post
  #17  
Old 08-29-2012, 03:27 PM
Urvile Urvile is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: Seattle
Posts: 25
Default

Quote:
"Why do I ignore the truth when someone gives it to me, accept lies and cheating, then complain about it when I already knew who they really were and what they would do?"

Don't even try to tell me you did not know who she is. If you are tempted even a little to do that, reread my reply. There is something inside of you that tells you it is ok to receive abuse. Your job is to find it, so you can learn why you let abusive people into your life, and change YOU.
I take all of these to heart. It's the lesson I keep/kept on learning over and over. Not standing up for myself, not facing the truth, that it was abuse, not some lack in myself. I own what has happened.

I've been struggling to wrap my arms around it all, and face her directly. And I have been moving towards extracting myself from this situation.

Last edited by Urvile; 08-29-2012 at 03:49 PM.
Reply With Quote