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Old 08-29-2012, 12:55 AM
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Originally Posted by Urvile View Post
Am I crazy for sticking around? Or do I have my head up my ass?
Yes and yes.

If you don't end this toxic relationship, then -- at the very least -- stop paying her bills. Seriously, why do you stay? Love is not enough! To find satisfaction in relationships, there has to be mutual caring, respect, affection, and trust, among other things. I see no evidence of these things in your story.

I say get out while the gettin' is good!

These lyrics seem appropriate:
"There must be fifty ways
To leave your lover...
Fifty ways to leave your lover
You just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don’t need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don’t need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free . . ."
The world opens up... when you do.

"Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me." ~Bryan Ferry
"Love and the self are one . . ." ~Leo Buscaglia

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Last edited by nycindie; 08-29-2012 at 01:01 AM.
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