Allow me to echo everyone in saying both "I'm sorry" for the pain you've gone through, and also "Congratulations" on the healthy attitude you've cultivated. Best of luck!!
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.