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Old 08-28-2012, 06:08 PM
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As a mom, I see big red flags with your level of involvement with her kids. It sounds like she was looking for someone to take over her responsibilities for her, which is why your situation sounded attractive in the beginning. I don't know how long you were dating before you started babysitting and cleaning up her house, but most mom's I know, don't let their kids anywhere near their new friends, dates and potential lovers for a good long time. I'm not comfortable with my kids interacting with people who are just friends for more than a few hours a month, when I have only known that person less than a year (not counting organized group activities, such as scouts). Frankly, this person doesn't sound like someone you would want around on the long term anyway. Chalk it up to a learning experience, too much, too fast, with someone you really don't know.
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