I used to really like posting with advice on the Poly Relationships section of the boards. I still check it sometimes, but I find that, for whatever reason, I almost never have the emotional energy to write anything these days. I just find it too depressing. I'm so glad to be involved with people who are fair-minded, kind, and genuinely interested in my well-being. I may not get everything I want right when I want it, but I know that my partners and my metamour seriously consider my best interests along with their own and try to do right by everyone involved. It sucks that so many people don't seem to have that.
The major players. Me, 30ish bi female. Gia, girlfriend of 4+ years. Clay, boyfriend/dom. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eddie, roommate & fwb.
The supporting cast. Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler. Dexter, Gia's lover. Helen, Eric's lover. Izzy and Nikki, Clay's partners. Liam, Eddie's husband.