Has anyone found that there is a hierarchy of some description within their triad?
fDP pointed out to me is morning that she has a tendacy to call me 'darling girl', and was asking whether I felt like she was trying to assert herself as 'lead female' because she worries that she's infantilising me to a degree. I hadn't really noticed, LOL, but at the same time, I do defer to her as the den mother a bit. She's the one who runs the household, and I only take over the running if she's sick or not there.
So maybe it's not so much about the dynamic of the triad, so much as the dynamic between the two members of the same sex.