Er, considering that my blog in the Life Stories section is entitled "story of a secondary", I'm not really sure what to say to the idea that these boards are "primary heavy". Let people think what they may, it's not like it's true. How could it be? After all, if, say, you're a married person with a bf or gf with whom you have a lesser degree of commitment, you are both a primary and a secondary
because you have both a primary and a secondary relationship! It's not like the bf or gf is the only one in the secondary position in that scenario!! Remember everybody, these terms describe the level of involvement and commitment within a given relationship, and it takes two to tango (when it comes to dyads, anyway
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.