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Old 08-26-2012, 01:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Quietfever View Post
I do think I am more suited to being poly, but I don't think being a secondary while I am single really is going to work for me...
Based on what you have written here, I would tend to agree with you. It doesn't sound like the positive in any way outweighs the negatives that you know you are going to feel.

I applaud you loudly for doing this thought process before getting in too deep - so many folks just dive in, and then resent the situation when they don't get what they want. Better to look at it with open eyes before it gets to that point.
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