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Old 08-26-2012, 12:32 PM
jenzen jenzen is offline
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Mandi,

I to am relatively new.

I would suggest that you and your hubby sit down and really talk about what each of you wants from your polyamorous relationship. Develop a list of expectations each of you has of the other when meeting with someone...i.e. obviously safe sex, no sex with a new person without your hubby/wife meeting that new person.

I'm only guessing but I don't get the feeling that communcation is an issue if he is suggesting poly and you are already checking it out. But humor me when I say communication is huge in any relationship ecspecially a poly or triad relationship.

Respect is paramount to making all things work. If you get into a situation and don't feel comfortable or safe, respect yourself enough to remove yourself from the situation.

I wish you good luck and if I can help you with anything I would do my best should you ask.

jenzen
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