I completely agree. Which is why we haven't done anything, and why I think he's going to have to talk to his wife before anything would even be possible. I don't want to be a part of cheating.
Edit: I could have been more clear. I don't see a way around his lying to his wife, which means that I won't be able to make it work and be more involved with him than just being his friend. So unless, by some miracle, she changes her mind, I'll just have to be happy being his friend.
Don't try to tell me who you are; tell me who you love.
The beauty of life is, while we cannot undo what is done, we can see it, understand it, learn from it and change. So that every new moment is spent not in regret, guilt, fear or anger, but in wisdom, understanding and love.
-- Jennifer Edwards
Last edited by lipsnlace; 12-10-2009 at 02:23 AM.