Originally Posted by ramfish
This is most true. I'm really really getting the feeling that he isn't sure what he wants, which is why he's sending me mixed signals.
This is not the first time I have expected more from someone who has no obligation to reciprocate regularly. It has a lot to do with the way it think, how my depression can affect me when I'm worried ... etc.
I have been tempted in the past to delete his phone number from my phone, give it to a friend, and tell them not to give it back to me for X amount of time...it probably sounds extreme...but it would remove the temptation, wouldn't it?
Admit it..you know it by heart
Try to cut back...wait fot his reply as you know he will respond it sounds like. That would be a big step