Relaxation, enjoyment, acceptance... yep, definitely things to strive for. I've been feeling it the last few days, at least. Chill about Davis, planning a mini-getaway for his birthday next month. Chill about Gia, drafted an email on scheduling a date and also a time to get dinner with my parents (something we discussed last year but which never actually happened due to scheduling issues), gonna wait to send it until things quiet down a little ( August had been a *very* busy month for both of us. Chill about Eric, I watched Bee last night and beforehand had a fun conversation with him and Gia about various stuff we're into, just friendly and amiable, and today he and I have been chatting online about nothing of consequence.
Chill, happy to have the things I have, to be loved and wanted and respected.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.