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Old 08-22-2012, 05:55 PM
marriedwithbenefits marriedwithbenefits is offline
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Ugh- i typed a whole long response and something happened and its gone! jeez. anyway, it makes sense what you said, what wound up happening with us is that we set a date and time to talk about how each of us felt and what we were looking for from the realtionship. my husband and I discussed it amonst ourselves and the other couple did too first and we all were able set boundaries and limits and were very open about the rules, contact, etc. (we dont sleep at each others houses and when we travel we sleep with our spouses, we set time limits 3 hours, 20 minutes whatever we could sqeeze in etc) it took a while to work out but it did. and still does.
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