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Old 08-22-2012, 01:14 AM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Originally Posted by zylya View Post
Your assumption was that his disappointment at (supposed) rejection was just patronising behaviour about how many partners are too many, when it seems to me (and others) that it was just an expression of disappointment at hearing that you were (in his understanding) unavailable.
This. If I received a message saying somebody wasn't looking, I'd take that as an indication that she's not open for a new relationship.
When speaking of various forms of ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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