Originally Posted by lovefromgirl
Welcome to the site! There is a section of the board dedicated to finding that/those special someone/s; you'll have better luck actually looking there.
Uncle Sam appears to have kept you both stateside. You say you were in the military; has one or the other (or both) retired? How would you handle suddenly being stationed far away from a third/secondary? We got moved around every few years, hopping oceans, until I was seven. Mum knew what she was getting into, marrying a GI, but she had the protections of legal marriage to help her along -- secondaries generally don't.
I got out of the military in 2010, my husband is due to get out in about 2 weeks. so no worry on moving away. Where is the forum you were refering to?