Originally Posted by 1of4
I just wanted to say hello. Our quad relationship with our best friends in the world is much newer (14 months now), but I totally relate with feeling incredibly blessed. The relationship my husband and I (married 20+ years) have with our friends (married 15+ years) is very special and I suspect very rare. We are only "out" to a few friends, so don't really have any objective parties outside of the quad to talk to about it. If any of you ever want to talk, it would be great to have others to talk to who actually understand some of the issues that quads face.
Sounds like we have much in common. Curious...were you and your husband open to the idea of poly before becoming intimate with your friends or did the relationship change your thinking?