Saw the poll, didn't even read the post. It would never cross my mind to try and see if I love someone more than they love me or the other way around. What do you care?
Either he makes you feel appreciated and loved, or he doesn't. If he doesn't, talk to him about it. How much you love him vs how much he loves you is completely irrelevant, and just mentioning it is... well, pretty immature. It makes me think of little kids making sure their piece of cake is as big as their sibling's.