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Old 08-20-2012, 08:51 PM
jndmoore jndmoore is offline
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The way my wife and I looked at it was this way, I know how to pleasure my wife...but that is not to say I could not do some things better or that she may have even known it was better. Then her partner opened some doors on some things and we both realized we liked it more than we thought we would and now it has become regular practice. Should any of us feel bad that he was the one to enlighten us? Nope, we should feel grateful because we are growing...both as individuals and as a couple. I would sit down with both men and express your 'issues' and gauge how they feel, but odds are your partner will be happy your husband is growing and your husband will continue to thrive as a result which pays dividends for you. But if you keep them to yourself, you will only continue to fret needlessly.
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