Hi and welcome,
Have you tried counseling to get your message across. The empty or romantically lacking relationship message.
Why can't you come out and say the DADT policy surround other partners has been activated and you thought he would at least know that much so you wouldn't have to lie.
Have you read or heard of the book love languages ....it's recommended here a lot. I'm sure its listed in the book list here. It might be worth a quick read for you both.
Last edited by dingedheart; 08-20-2012 at 06:48 PM.