I know. It's like some of the creeps hear a woman is poly and they want to get laid ASAP because they assume poly means I'm a candy bar where just anyone can take a bite. My fav button is "Bi, poly and I STILL won't sleep with you!"
But it's hard to sift the wheat from the chaff.
Hence -- maybe it's time to freshen your profile? I want someone with hot ethics. Not hot pants. I know I say it all the time for myself : "Serious Jedi players only. No Muppet Show!"
I try to remain positive and not let myself get sucked into negative mode just because there is a lot of chaff at the moment. Humor helps me there.