Are you from Europe? Spelling "mommy" as "mummy" seems to be something they do. It gives me nightmares.
Welcome to the forum. I would say you were a unicorn but now you're just a third of the triad.
"Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is the regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable." - Sydney Smith
Kyle: 27 year old male
Katie (rymmare): 25 year old female
Kids: girl: 5 years old, boy: 3 years old