"We have all three agreed not to be sexually intimate for 30 days on all duo and trio tiers."
Congrats on your progress!! Talking is the best.
But I just wanted to say that this sounds pretty drastic and hard? I really hope that you guys aren't setting yourselves up for failure by agreeing to such a strict and potentially difficult restriction... maybe I'm just a sex fiend, who knows, but I'd start finding that rough.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.