Hello emmyrosema,
Glad you could join us.
You might want to try our
Dating & Friendships subforum (if you haven't already). Also, you could Google "polyamory Texas" or "polyamory San Antonio" ... there may be a poly group somewhere in your area ... a way to make friends and learn more.
Also you can make friends and learn a lot on this website. I encourage you to take advantage of that opportunity.
Welcome aboard,
Kevin T.