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Old 08-18-2012, 09:30 PM
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Well, put me down as another person with a primary who doesn't have arbitrary VETO power.

At any time in the relationship we can all talk, if they have concerns. I trust their judgment, and will make decisions based on that, and the fact that sometime NRE can make me a bit blind to the realities.

The thing is, if I were to meet someone new that I wanted to have a relationship with, I would expect to have this discussion with both of my ladies to get their feedback on the person - my "secondary" would have just as much of a say as my "primary".

You most certainly aren't required to give VETO power to anyone in terms of relationships.

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