Thread: Poly or not?
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Old 08-18-2012, 06:23 PM
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TornHeart, well done. Sad that you found him in the company of someone who is likely a far better person than he is, isn't it? But let's let her cope with his crap. You are out of it now.

Second step: no postmortems. No long strings of emails. CdM's right; he may well try to sell you on why the relationship needs to continue. (I can say this from painful personal experience. In my case, the prize specimen wrote up the loss of my virginity and tried to send it to me.)

You owe no explanation; his friend probably has a good idea of why, anyhow. You owe no closure. Don't let anyone guilt-trip you into thinking otherwise.
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