I'm a total newbie to the world of polyamorous relationships....
I'm deeply invovlved and committed to my triad relationship. I'm the secondary female. Sometimes I feel like the referee! I've known my man for about 20yrs and his wife/my girlfriend for about a yr.
They are or were swingers but have not gone out as such since the 3 of us started dating. Recently I have moved in with them. Neither of them feel the need to live the swinger lifstyle any longer, to use their words they have found what they were missing.
We are all from and live in Indianapolis. We don't broadcast our living arrangements or personal lives and we don't speculate about the lifestyles other people are living.