Originally Posted by GalaGirl
An anthropologist friend told me women need to speak 30K words a day to feel right. Men need 15K. I was amazed because suddenly so
much made sense about me and the glassy-eyes of my honey when I push him past "I am now too full! Help!"
Heh, what about transpersons and gender-queers? My gf is trans and she just babbles on and on, and sometime I just can't take it anymore. I'm cisgendered female but genderqueer and I just have to get away sometimes. Spent 4 days at my own place this week and besides my part time job and a little IMing, I barely said a word... or heard one. Heaven. My own thoughts were enough to keep me "feeling right." I didn't want to tell anyone anything, I didn't want to hear any gossip or deeper conversation. Just peace and golden silence, ahhh...
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
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