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Old 12-09-2009, 05:11 AM
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Originally Posted by LovingRadiance View Post
If it's meant to be- it will be. If it's not- the opportunity won't arise.
I completely agree! I've had friends ask if my primary and I are looking for lovers just because we decided to be poly. Before our lovers came into our lives, we we had decided that being poly suited us, but we weren't actively looking for people. It wouldn't seem right to me to actively search for someone to love, which is what it means to us.

Thank you for putting it so eloquently!
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