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Old 08-17-2012, 04:39 PM
xoxachahim xoxachahim is offline
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Default Naturally winding down

Thank you for your kind words. He is really not as much of a douchebag as this all sounds, but I agree that I am the one in charge of enforcing my boundaries and respecting myself. What's going on is that I'm at a place where I'm trying to learn to adapt fluidly to changing situations, and not always try to push things into a partner direction. I have a very high sex and romance drive and want to be able to enjoy people in that way even if they don't meet my standard for a serious relationship. I am also queer (my boyfriend is transgendered), and finding queer lovers where I live is not easy!

Point is, at this point, he is moving away very soon and at that point I think being long distance, occasional lovers will suit us much better.
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