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Old 08-16-2012, 07:15 PM
GalaGirl GalaGirl is offline
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So you told him you were poly and wanted to what? What did you want/need from him?
  • Just love me as a poly and know I am this. File it in your internal notebook.

  • Just love me as a poly, know I am this AND be open to hearing my inner life so I have some safe (to my mono partner) expression of it -- thoughts and feelings about being poly from time to time. Read my books, articles, see my movies, enjoy me when I suffer crushes from afar.

  • Just love me as a poly, know I am this, and be open to hearing about my inner life AND open the marriage to so I can start to date other people and find a new lover.

Those are all different tiers there of want/need. What is your minimum benchmark to be happy in relationship with mono him? (Mine is bolded as my minimum benchmark).

GG

Last edited by GalaGirl; 08-16-2012 at 10:25 PM.
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