Glad things are looking up!
Although, I would be curious about other peoples limitations to oral sex and the logical reasons behind them.
Oral is oral. STD is STD.
Barriers please -- condoms, gloves, dental dams, saran wrap.
Different degrees of safety/comfort of course but something!
The only safe sex is zero sex. It's just degrees of safer sex. Everyone has a different line in the sane for their own comfort level. Me? There's no fluid bonding happening without serious negotiation and barrier time served here. Barriers up!