I realized today that although I am not technically a secondary to anyone, the girl I have been pining over has been less communicative (she's busy with work) and its resulting in a generally poorer mood for me. Secondary status is hard. Definitely tread with caution of you choose to go that route.
"Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is the regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable." - Sydney Smith
Kyle: 27 year old male
Katie (rymmare): 25 year old female
Kids: girl: 5 years old, boy: 3 years old