Originally Posted by SNeacail
This is not healthy and should be addressed with your marriage counselor. I can see not traveling for monetary concerns, but isolating yourself is never a good plan (although very common once kids enter the picture, there is only so much time in a day).
It could be that they moved and she had to give up all three. It could be a number of things. We should let Perks explain before we jump to the "your husband owns you like slave" line of thought.
(Not trying to call you out, just think we should let Perks elaborate more)