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Old 08-15-2012, 10:03 AM
Perks Perks is offline
Join Date: Jul 2012
Location: CA
Posts: 6
Default How long will you take?

Poly= I've been this way my whole life. I know myself.

Mono= Husband is knee deep in it.

I came into this marriage with these words.... "I'm GOING to have sex with other people. Are you SURE you want to do this?" (And yes I know it sounds like I swing but we had talked before about relationships.) He knew what he was getting into.

A week ago my husband says to me: "I don't like this. I'm not ok with any part of you being with someone else. This might be a deal breaker for me."

Like a baseball to the face.

So now what? I've been with other people. I have a boyfriend right now. Am I in a world of shit? Is this new feeling he has retroactive? Will there be jail time?

I will admit to playing soft with him for the first four years. And by that I mean I didn't look for another relationship. And this is probably due to the fact that I am very picky about who I want to be with, but I guess that made it pretty easy for him to pretend I was mono.

The last year has been go go poly. Not sure why the change of heart.

Anyone else ever have this happen to them? Did it work out? Why do mono people fall in love with poly people? Is it because we have nice hair?
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