Not a problem, glad you're here.
Long-distance relationships are always rough, for a lot of reasons. Luckily poly doesn't limit anyone to a single partner, so there are options here and they don't all involve "canceling a primary."
Will this relationship always be long-distance? Any plans to eventually move closer together? I'm just curious.
Sometimes you can use the site's search feature to see if a question's already been asked; also there is a "Golden Nuggets
" board. But it would be hard to avoid repeating a question that had already been asked here or there, so I suggest don't be too nervous about posting a question anew.
Hope we can be of help,