How long ago did you have your baby? Is postpartum depression an issue?
Definitely get into counceling. If your having trouble finding a poly friendly counselor, try to interview a few prior to making an appointment. It doesn't sound like your problem is poly, your problem is that you guys are not working and not communicating (whining and complaining is not communicating). So many things change after having a baby, it can be and extreme struggle to find a balance again, especially between the two parents.
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