Originally Posted by jennygreen
I have a wonderful partner, whom I love and respect very much. While I could be wrong, I am almost certain than broaching this subject with my partner could lead to the end of the relationship (and ifnot, to problems within the relationship without solving anything for e).
It sounds like you might have some work to do on your relationship if you guys can't talk about stuff. There is a BIG difference between discussing options and acting on your desires. As being able to communicate to your partners is absolutely essential in poly or any long lasting relationship, start your work here. Do some "tag" searches on communication, foundations, lessons, etc. You can get some insight to what others have learned on their own journey.