This is a topic not to be taken lightly, EVER! We have talked about all kinds of scenarios. Me dating a single girl, him dating a single girl, him finding a woman in a relationship, being part of a triad, or maybe us finding a girl to join us in part of a triad. As I am not seeking to be with another a man we know it might possible be easier for me to find someone else. We don't want just one night stand kinds of things. And sex is not necessarily the goal either. But someone we have can have an emotional relationship as well.
We are not ready to discuss living with anyone. As we have always been private about this aspect of our life. If it ever came up it would certainly be something to discuss. But for now it's first things first. Finding a local community of like minded people.