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Old 08-12-2012, 05:49 PM
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So he did mention that if I wanted I can go out on a date on my own.
Oh, how "big" of him to "let" you. I mean, it's not like you're an adult with your own choices to make, or anything, is it?

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He seen some fliry text messages going on and he got anxiety and upset. He said he doesn't mind if I date other woman just not men at all. So where do we go. I let him date other woman and I just don't know what to do or say in this siutation where I can not date the opposite sex.
Tell him you understand his fears and insecurities, but that you are your own person and will date whomever you feel attracted to and hit it off with. You own your own heart and body, and he cannot dictate which gender you want to share those with. But you can promise to go slowly and help him to deal with his insecurities.
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