Originally Posted by snowmelt
What is the situation she presented?
She asked him if he'd still date her if she was pregnant (in vitro) or had a baby (adoption.)
You can get a better idea of the situation here
. I started to blog about where I'm at, but it's hard to find the time to keep everything up to date as things are processing so quickly.
I doubt anyone who has never gone through the process of becoming a parent and then raising a child can understand why this has become such a threatening issue to me. Every
major decision I have made since I became a mother has been influenced by the fact that I have children to consider, protect, provide for, etc. That's how encompassing parenthood is.