Welcome to the forum, ManyNorth!
I think that I have seen a few Alaskans posting here - I am certain they will come out of the woodwork, if there are still around.
So are you currently single? If not, how have the discussions with your partner gone as far as polyamory is concerned?
Please check out The Birdcage - an open, friendly Polyamory forum for all parts of New York State
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