Originally Posted by nycindie
As far as lube goes, am I weird that I rarely ever use it? And in the past two years, only one of my lovers has ever wanted to use lube. Most guys say "no" when I ask them. And if you put on a little too much, the condom slips off. So, I don't get the appeal. Obviously, if I were into anal, I would be using it more, but I'm not. So, my natural juiciness seems plentiful enough for fucking. Am I missing something?
I like to use it for handjobs. I usually combine oral with hjs, but about half the time, I get tired of providing enough saliva... so lube it is. My lovers love my long wet handjobs. I prefer also, giving a lubed up hj to a dry one, feels more sensuous.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
also loving Punk (42, M) since Oct 2015 (he has recently downgraded us to friends)
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 2 years