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Old 08-12-2012, 03:22 AM
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I think you both are doing great in figuring out what you want and communicating your needs, etc., but you could do well to slow things down a bit. While it is great to know what you eventually want for yourselves, making plans for the future at such an early stage can set you up for deep disappointment. Don't hang all your hopes on S and P. Keep meeting people, see where the chemistry is, take chances but just a little bit at a time. Don't try to make a relationship out of a very new attraction before it really actually is one. Be patient, and keep learning from the process.
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