You say you are "Looking". Care to talk more about what sort of thing you are "looking" for?
Male? Female? MF Couple? Poolboy? Harem? Kibbutz? New lawnmower?
Married? Single? Kids? No kids?
Pets? No Pets? Smoker? Non-smoker?
FWB? Live-in partner? Poly friends?
The point I am making is that you may get this to go somewhere easier if you talk a little more about what you want - maybe pique someone's interest.
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