Welcome to the forum!
I always like to hear about folks that have decided that they have standards and stick to them, even if it means staying single or celibate. Why waste time on folks that aren't ever going to amount to anything in a relationship with you? It sometimes seems like there are so many folks that are so desperate for *something* that they will do *anything*, compromise any values, just in order not to be single.
More power to you!
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